Want to lead Here are 8 things you dont get to do

Want to lead Here are 8 things you dont get to doWant to lead Here are 8 things you dont get to doIf you want to influence team behaviors and lead us to achievement, here are 8 things you dont get to do1. You dont get to explain why you slipped and didnt model better behavior.You only get to apologize.2. You dont get to share your truth about everything you think, even when we implore you to be more authentic.You must say things that build a better future.3. You dont get to tell us about all your fears.You need to relentlessly focus on the evidence that gives us reason to be optimistic.4. You dont get to come back to our team and tell us you were right, and that we should have just listened to you at the beginning.You get to control your ego so we can develop our strengths for tomorrow.5. You dont get to alienate us when we passionately disagree with you.You are our model for including diverse approaches and ideas.6. You dont get to make this whole thing our shared objectives about you.You set the tone for our one-team culture.7. You dont get to tell us everything were doing wrong.You are the one to build our confidence.8. You dont get to be overwhelmed by the pressures we face.You must communicate the confidence that we will prevail.You dont get to be our leader because of your resume. You get to manage your emotions and behaviors so you can better lead ours.This article first appeared on Be Leaderly.